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At what age is it okay for coaches to swear at your child?

November 6, 2023

In this episode, Darius Charles and Dan Edwards talk to Jess Warner, the blogger known as being “the one with all the boys”—the mum behind The Only Girl in the House, where she shares tales, tips, tricks, family travels and grumbles of having 5 boys.

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At what age is it okay for coaches to swear at your child?

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In this episode, Darius Charles and Dan Edwards talk to Jess Warner, the blogger known as being “the one with all the boys” - the mum behind The Only Girl in the House, where she shares tales, tips, tricks, family travels and grumbles of having 5 boys.

In this Instagram live stream, they discuss how to deal with teammates who are bullies in academy football and much more.

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